I’ve been single since March. My last relationship was four years. We just didn’t match — different values, different beliefs, different goals. Social media has messed up what people think a relationship is supposed to look like. A lot of people play games. They won’t be open about who they are. They fake it to get in someone’s pants and it’s never long term. I think a lot of women — and men too — want to stop playing games but they won’t say it out loud. Who I surround myself with matters. Positive Personality takes real work — people have to be willing to change and commit, and a lot of them aren’t. I’ve been on dates with women and men. I find women easier to get along with because they’re usually less insecure. I need a man who’s secure in himself. Being secure means you can actually be the best version of yourself. I look for honesty, communication, and vulnerability. A lot of people are scared to be vulnerable. What I bring is fun, sweet, and ambitious.